the end of technophobia
December 17th, 2006I am, as Pim calls it, a “believer” in the power of the virtual community. I actually don’t like using the term “virtual” because I start picturing a Tron-like world controlled by an evil computer, and because “virtual” seems to imply that the identities and relationships we form online are somehow less important, much less real than the ones formed in our physical world. There is still so much fear, so much suspicion when it comes to online communication.
I think I still had a touch of this suspicion myself until last year, when I received and accepted a marriage proposal via SMS. My then-boyfriend (now husband) and I had met under somewhat unpromising conditions: his work visa was expiring and he was leaving New York to return to the UK almost immediately. Long-distance relationships are hard under the best of circumstances but I just couldn’t imagine how we could make it work when we’d just met, were just getting to know each other. I was skeptical, but then we did get a lucky break in timing: just as we had become used to emailing each other daily, my mobile phone provider started to support international texting. Before long, I was living in a sort of mid-tech augmented reality - one where my boyfriend wasn’t thousands of miles away but always, always present through a stream of near-constant text messages. We didn’t get to know each other through texting alone, but our mobile phones played a big part, no question. In fact, now that we live together, we sometimes get confused- I tell my husband that he’s definitely been somewhere that he can’t remember because he hadn’t actually been there at all, I had just been texting him while I was there.
I think relationships like mine and my husband’s are the type of thing that technology fosters. I don’t think we have to fear some widespread defection into Second Life- tools like texting and instant messaging help us stay connected to the world we live in, rather than taking us out of it.
Excitingly, I don’t think we can predict what technology we’ll be using even just ten years down the line. I just don’t think we know right now. Ten years ago the buzz word was “convergence” and by now we were supposed to have ditched our televisions and stereos to watch interactive movies on our computers. That could still happen, but right now, instead, our computers make our televisions and stereos better instead of replacing them. The iPod just turned five years old. Ten years ago, who knew how ubiquitous portable mp3 players would become in such a short amount of time? We don’t know what tech devices and services we’ll find indispensable a few years from now, but I hope they’ll be things so life-altering, and user-friendly, that even my Mom will be using them.